Workplace Wisdom: Teaching People Who Are Laughing At The Sword.

In the workplace, people who like to laugh and hide a knife usually prefer to lower their heads, not to look squarely at other people's eyes.

When laughing, it does not seem to be relaxed enough. It is frivolous in manner and has some insensitive elements in speech.

For example, a person who will take advantage of you may be superior to others in terms of sex and evil.

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Jean Valjean was recently depressed, and what she could not think of was that his colleague and the death party, who had two years of friendship, would compete with themselves in the same profession.

Chen Ran is a divorced woman. When she first came to the company, she had no experience in this industry.

As a head of the Department, ran Xi naturally became her entry teacher.

At that time, Chen Ran was very sweet to ran Xi's mouth. The left "ran sister" was called by a "ran sister" on the right. Chen Ran to the family after he left work.

Ran Xi is quite humane.

She never knows how to refuse others' kindness. For example, Chen Ran often buys a little gift for her two year old son.

Two years later, Chen Ran to another company. She became the largest company in the company.

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She threw out some of the company plans that she had revealed to her.

Analysis: the most taboo in the company is the confusion between the roles of colleagues and friends, and the confusion between work and life.

Because the state of a friend is likely to disturb the state of work, people should be objective, fair and clear in their work, but because of infiltration of friends, people may lack fairness and become subjective and emotional, so they must keep their distance clearly.

His (her) experience is tortuous and moving, even like the plot in the movie.

Such as the bleak life experience, gentle and beautiful love story.

He (she) often claims to be extraordinarily similar to your experience. Whenever you say something, he or she will be able to, and always create a sense of "being the same as the end of the world".

He (she) is always the same as you, and for example, there are obvious differences between you from outside to inside, but he (she) always says diligently: "we are just like two elder sisters." the mantra is: "you are just like me."

He (she) shows excessive enthusiasm and always likes to give you some small benefits. When you encounter something, he or she will ignore your need to ask for help, but never put it into practice.

He (she) did not cause you to rely on you.

Even arrange some activities for you, like to say, "let's go together..."

Apparently, he (she) seems to be very enthusiastic, but in fact, if you really do it, he (she) will change the way to exclude you.

People often say, "shopping malls are like battlefields".

In fact, this is not the case in the workplace. In peacetime, you may be friendly and friendly, but once you face the interests of promotions, raises, layoffs and other benefits, the relationship will become a competitive relationship.

If you are still heartless and think "Hello, I am good, everyone is good", it is likely to be "calculated".

Therefore, in the office, it is not appropriate to be too kind. Sometimes it is necessary to show some "Shrew" in moderation, so as not to make people think you are a good bully.